My girlfriend sent this funny Thank You card to me for helping her out with a project she's working on. She's my friend, so to me, it was my pleasure to spend time with her. Today her card came and I cracked up because it's a musical card that plays "We Are Fa-mi-ly" (remember that?) My point is that she knew I'd love that card. She knew I'd crack up and she just plain old wanted to thank me for my help even tho she'd already thanked me to my face. Compare this to people who never take the time to buy a card and a 42 cent stamp and make a trip to the Post Office to mail it. I guess they're just too busy to do something as trivial as send a Thank You card.
I love to send cards. Birthday cards. Thank you cards. Cards just for fun. And I think it's another one of the old-fashioned customs that is vanishing -- just like letter writing. It's so easy to type an e-thank you and click send. It takes no effort. But the person who did the helping used effort (that would be the help-er, right?) The person who did the helping either helped with their muscle, time or money (or all three). So why not make the effort to buy a fabulous card and make the effort to send it?
Oh well, I guess in our gimme gimme gimme society manners have become a nuisance. I still believe it is proper manners to send a proper thank you card with an actual handwritten signature (what a concept!) It's nice to be nice. Maybe some people live in a world that's hurdling out of control and the Thank You note concept doesn't stand a chance. That's why I'm so grateful to live in small town America and to be surrounded by friends who still bake bread, sew and send Thank You cards. I can't imagine being so stressed and frazzled that the thought of sitting down for 5 minutes to write "Thank You!" to someone is out of the question. Pretty sad, isn't it...
This is why we all must vote for Mr. Bubbles for President next time -- because his platform mandates that every American sit in silence for 15 minutes every day to calm their wild mind and pray. After all, if a person doesn't have time to send a Thank You card, they certainly don't have time to take a walk and smell their neighbors roses, and that means they certainly don't have time to pray.